From A Reader - CAN'T I HAVE A GUY AS MY BESTIE?

Ok....let's quickly look into this. I didn't get this as a mail. The lady involved talked to me about this little problem she's having on BBM. We had a loooonnnggg chat. She wasn't satisfied with what I told her, so she insisted I bring it on my blog and see if you guyz can tell her the truth.

Ooooopppsss! You guyz don dey turn me to something else.

Jane (not real name), according to what she told me said she likes to make a guy her bestie. She said she sometimes feel she had come to this world as a guy. Though, she's got many girlfriends but she wants a guy as her Best Friend. The problem here is; she has had like 2 guyz as her bestie in the past but they all at end wanna have sex with her. She said:
"Bt y can't a guy n a gal b just friends. Y can't I av a guy as my bestie, without im feeliing lyk kissing me? Without im avin a crush on me, I jus don't get it"

I told her the truth that it's very rare to find such a guy, most especially if the girl we talking about doesn't have a boyfriend (Jane actually doesn't have a boyfriend). So, her best friend will wanna take advantage of her. She should just get herself a boyfriend and make her boyfriend her bestie. So, she won't have any problem if her boyfriend asks for a kiss. GBAM! LOBATAN.

But, Jane no wan gree to my word.

Ladies and Gentlemen, please say something and save sister Jane. And is there any guy who can be sister Jane's best friend with no strings attached, no crush, no 'I feel like kissing you' and no 'you're sexy, let's have sex'?....that guy should please identify himself by adding me up on BBM - 742EBB2A. I'll connect you to sister Jane sharpali.

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