I discovered lately that most of una dey gbadun this 'From A Reader' feature on my blog. You keep asking me to publish more of the mails. And the most interesting thing here is you never stopped sending the mails. Now, my mail box is full and gmail is about to kick me out of their mail service. No worry, if they send me packing, I'll start using Yahoo mail......lol!
So, how have you been? Well, don't bother asking bout my life....I've been feeling good these days. With you guyz encouraging me to keep moving on. My BBM crashes every 10 minutes as a result of the plenty contacts I chat with. Thanks so much. YOU GUYS ARE GREAT! As you dey for me gidigba, me sef full ground yakata......hehe!
Now, here is a mail I got on Saturday. I know this is Ojoro, buh abeg no vex.....There are mails that arrived before this which I haven't published. I had to quickly publish this cuz itz a very urgent issue. The woman wey send am sef really try for the write-up....I almost got a headache due to the short forms used. Read for yourself:
"Jawbone, A frnd of mine needs your advice....ds s her story- jst few mnths after her wedding ,she had a miscarriage and her husband started acting strange. Recently he impregnated another woman and started maltreating her, her family members werent allowed to call nor visit her. Her inlaws love her so mch and ve tried all to manage the situation, now the man hardly comes home, he beats her at any slight provocation, stopped her from working making sure she's financially stranded. At a time he made her swear that she would neva leave him no matter what he does. She's scared, confused and needs your advice and help."
I've said it before and I'll keep saying it, I ain't a marriage counselor, I just dey try ni. My advise may sound harsh and crazy but na my mind I talk.
Now, this is a case of LIFE & DEATH. I will not talk too much. Madam, tell your friend to get herself out of that marriage before she'll be murdered by either her husband or the other woman her husband has impregnated. If she's afraid to move out cuz she has sworn never to leave him, then she shouldn't be afraid to die.
The Charming Humble Nice Guy won't say more than this.
What have you guyz got to say to help? Drop your advice as comments.
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Many kwessions to ansa bfr a solution could b proferred. but all d same make she continue to dey pray. cant rily discuss now coz exam onpoint.
ReplyDeleteShe should separate from her husband for now and submit her life wholly to Christ. This will enable her to spend time praying
ReplyDeletefor herself, husband and marriage because the other woman is controlling her husband
with a charm and occultic power. The target of that woman is to takeover her marriage but with a close relationship with God and prayers the situation can be arrested. Prayer remains the most powerful force in the world and no problem is too hard for God to solve.
She shuld file a fucking divorce. Even tho I don't knw anytin bt I knw if she kips acting lyk mumu, d guy will kip takin advantage of ha. She shuld wise up jawe.
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Just like @Jon Tal advised, it is better for her to move out for now and then pray to God to touch her husband and restore her home back to her. by Lady Writer.
ReplyDeleteI 4 talk say SURULERE, but since d man no get SURU, hin don impregnate anoda woman... She shldnt have SURU den
ReplyDeleteIntresting story. Well i went tru all the comments and i am of a contrary view. From a marriage couselling class i attended and a certificate in marriage course, this is my view. Call me too religious but i do not believe in divorce. It is right that there is a courtship before marriage. This is a stage of knowing each other. Anything you see in marriage have directly or indirectly happened during courtship which should not be less than a year. Any man that is beating you when you are married to him must have been beating you when you were courting. Women are mostly blinded by lust and not love. She should but only seek the face of God and totally give her life to Christ. When she does, she now posses some powers and this power is in a bended knee to God. He alone can change her situation. Xontinue treating him nice and praying for him. He will change one day. All the best.
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