Tuesday, September 23, 2014

IS IT REALLY OK TO RESPECT YOUR EX REGARDLESS OF THE TYPE OF BREAK UP? - THE AGGRAVATED BOYFRIEND SPEAKS.

His last piece here was HOW TO KNOW IF IT IS LOVE, LUST OR INFATUATION, this post really blessed so many and plenty were thankful for his great write-up. Guess he read my article; STILL IN LOVE WITH YOUR EX? THEN, YOU REALLY NEED TO READ THIS. cuz he really did justice to the issue of 'HOW TO HANDLE YOUR EX'. After reading this, I want nobody to disturb me about his/her ex.....lolz. Oya, enjoy and remember to share your thoughts.

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Life can be cruel, complicated and weird sometimes as your one time yori yori might end up becoming that b*tch or that b*stard.  However its advisable to keep calm and not tell your ‘next about your ex’. Stories that touch the heart occurs yeah I know, and really you might end up cuddling each other after telling him the story of that **stupid boy**. Or you might win a session after telling her about that your nonsense ex chick. But really is it fresh to tell your current boyfriend/girlfriend about your ex? I’ll say NO.

You might be dealing with a fantastic actor who because he/she has heard about the lapses of your ex might want to act like that man/woman from heaven.

Again it breeds comparison between the ex and the current partner. Telling your current partner about the ex might lead to comparing them later; checking what you enjoyed from the previous relationship that is not in the current relationship and be like…. “My ex will never say that to me”.  I tell you, the world is made up of more than 8 billion people that have different blood types running in their system – you can’t expect them to act alike… Never expect them to act alike.

Cursing your ex or the memory you guys shared together is also something you should stop doing.  It is said that we should never regret whatever once made us smile, why it isn’t making us smile again is what we should be concerned about and if the ex has done something bad that eventually led to the break up, just ignore it and kill that ex with maturity. Show them that you’re grown and happier without them.

Try to be cool every time you see your ex, don’t give that “I hate you” look anytime you see your ex and don’t friendzone them.  As you once both shared something together, feelings might turn up again which could be dangerous and could lead to breaking the current partner’s heart and lead to an endless cycle of heartbreaks. Maintain an acquaintance-like relationship with the ex, no calls but say hi when you see them.. I think that’s maturity.

In conclusion, sit down and reminisce  on why the previous relationship failed and think of how you can make the current one work and last longer and probably have a happier ending **U know what I mean?*

Yeah…….

Written by: The Aggravated Boyfriend,
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6 comments:

  1. I like ur write up, pls keep it up. The sky is ur starting point. Hanot

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  2. How will I respect ma eX, I must be mad if I do so, we can't even be friend, bt we greet ourselves if our path cross and say hi #No friend talkess of Respect #gbam. That moment she becomes ma eX, that is de same our friendship had been cut off

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  3. Abi mo ti respect ni. Respect ko respect ni

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  4. Abi d ex no well ni. Respect koh insult ni. Abeg make ex go park well o. Or make he turn to brt lane

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  5. Great Job monami!
    As it were, I have never engage in any relationship before not because my relations don't ve a sheep but bcoz ve not come of age....lol
    Keep it up bro!

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  6. funny how I still get along with my ex very fine!.... since the first day
    after separation by the way.. ... I still see no reason to hate. I believe I'm too old for that. I don't have time to hate, too busy loving everyone.... We make the 'we' in 'aWEsome'!. .. Nice write up!

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