YOU'RE STILL A GIRL AND NOT A WOMAN if.... [By THE AGGRAVATED BOYFRIEND]

"Everybody grows old but not everybody grows up" says somebody (I have no idea who said it). 

Age has nothing to do with maturity, Nothing whatsoever. When a female reaches a certain age, she is expected to have outgrown some behaviors and act less like a girl and more like a woman. We never really grow up, we only learn how to act like adults.

If your body size has grown and you're no more a teenager but your behavior still reflects some of the things stated below, then my dear sister, you have some serious growing up to do.

1. YOU ARE ALWAYS PREDATORY:
I honestly don't mean to be rude but if you are always ready to show your claws and pounce on anybody who tries to mess with you regardless of where you are, then you need to relax, faraburukubale and check yourself.
Maturity entails being able to keep calm under immense pressure and handle issues without creating a scene. If the only way you know how to resolve issues is to cast your accessories, shoes, jewelry and purse aside while you “instill some sense into that babe's head” then there are no two ways to it, you are a CHILD!.

2. HOW YOU HANDLE BOYS AND RELATIONSHIP: 
Whenever it comes to relationship, the type of guys you settle for are the unserious ones who can't seem to grow up and but find it pretty easy to dip their hands into other women’s cookie jar.
Then you get heart broken and you go crying to your friends, update your social media with “I’m moving on without you!”, “Good riddance to bad rubbish”. You try to pick up the pieces of your broken heart and then you heal and hook up with the next childish guy while you still whine about the your last.
When you get struck by the same lightening more than once, its no longer a heartbreak my dear, its sheer stupidity and inability to act like a grown woman. Stop being a fucktard please. No grown woman keeps going back to her mistakes.

3. IMPULSIVE SHOPPING: 
You like to keep up with the trend and who cares if your earning is huge enough to afford that life yeah?
Well, trust me I’m not here to tell you how to spend your Money, but buying everything you feel like just because you have the money isn’t just plain silly but really immature. Life is more complex than the new fashion trends and money doesn’t stay forever. As a grown up, what you must have learnt and be ready to teach your kids also.
Saving is key and should be done anytime. You tell yourself you are about the good life and you are giving yourself a treat but I say, "treat occasionally not daily".
... and if you are a woman who doesn’t earn much but who shops more than she can afford, then you aren't only a child, you are an individual in need of serious spiritual and psychological intervention.

4. YOU ARE RUDE: 
There's nothing, I mean absolutely nothing, classy about being nasty. If you have a mighty difficulty with relating nicely with others, then you need to go back to elementary school or no!.. the kindergarten, and learn from your teachers and parents that talking badly to others is very wrong and leads nobody anywhere good.

5. PARTY FREAK: 
This week you’re hitting the club, next week you’re hitting the pub and then the beach and then some hangout and then a party. If your weekend is always littered with parties, with you having social functions every now and then, I hope you do realize sister, that you are a girl not a grown woman.
Who parties away every other time? What happened to some alone time while you reflect?

Watch it please cos these little things count.

Written by: The Aggravated Boyfriend
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