7:22 PM
*clear throat* Hen hen! How una dey my people? This is a very serious case, as it seems. It is a question I got this afternoon from a reader on BBM. The lady has actually been very silent on my Contact List. I didn't even know she is an ardent reader of my blog.
She suddenly popped up this afternoon after I published today's post ------>>> ABEG, WHAT IS SO SPECIAL ABOUT KNOWING YOUR LOVER'S NUMBER OFFHAND?
She said:
"Hello Mr CHNG, If you discover dat your spouse had HIV what will you do?"
I became really surprised because she didn't waste any time to ask. It came up SHARP before me. And that made me soo speechless. I said to myself:
"God forbid!!! My CHNGirl will not catch HIV....."
Then, I found myself praying for myself and my CHNGirl....na love! I love my baby gidigan ni. If you love yours too, always pray for him/her....datz by the way.
I received a PING from the lady, that got me back to life....cuz I was already lost in prayers. I sighed and started thinking of an answer. I told her to check my blog tonite for an answer and also to see what my people has got to say.
I came up with this:
I cannot because of HIV leave my baby. First of all, I'll re-assure her of my true love for her. This is the time she would need me more than ever. I will have to warn her not to tell anyone else. Only her parents will know, even her siblings must not be aware of it. I'll help her in every way I can to make her lead a normal and comfortable life. According to what specialists have told us: someone living with HIV can live longer than 10 years if medications are taken correctly and regularly. But, the issue of children is what I really don't know.
We would surely seek medical advice concerning child bearing and if there is a 'GO AHEAD'....no problem, we go born healthy pikins.
Most importantly, we will not leave God out of this. We will keep praying to God until He heals her perfectly. With God, all things are POSSIBLE.
The Charming Humble Nice Guy won't say more than this.
My people, this lady sounded like she is not happy....she didn't tell me who the affected person is. But, you people are already known as DIVINE HELPERS. Please, drop your words as comments.
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God forbid, I forbid, She forbids, We forbid...if i discover ma spouse "had" HIV
ReplyDeleteHad HIV or Has HIV...what i will do is go for a test, regardless of ma status, i wont leave her...our relationship afterwards if im negative will be limited to what the doctor says we can nd cannot do...but if im positive, we the same niyen
On another hand if im negative, i wld av anoda relationship which she wont know about nd i wont nd i dnt need to if im positive
Its nt dat easy to start thinking of a way to help her out especially if d both of av bin sexually active. Ur mind go first summersalt. Becos u don't no what ur status wld b.
ReplyDeleteHello my good friends please do not see this strange cause it my life story about my healing, i was having HIV for good 6yrs. Things were not working fine for me due to my health status i know longer have friends know lover it even takes time before my family co-operate with me due to this i tried all possible means i can to get this devilish sickness out of my body i went to hospitals hierarchies and other heath organization but all remains the same still yet i never gave up cos i was not born with this illness so i decided to take it over to the internet to see if i could get remedy, on my search i saw a testimony of a woman, she said she was also having a terrible sickness for over 3yrs but now she is healed i was surprise at first when i saw her test so she wrote a name dr EHIAGHE and also gave his email id so i mailed them which is (ehiaghespellhome@gmail.com) i told them about my problem and after the processes he told me that am healed but i never believed he told me to go and confirm it from the hospital were i have been taking treatment still i never believed also although he gave me evidence that the sickness was gone.
ReplyDeleteFinally i decided to go for check up and to my surprise my doctor said the sickness was know longer there with thought of joy i started shearing tears.
My friends today am now married bless with 2kids, so if you have any sickness kindly email (ehiaghespellhome@gmail.com) sir i will forever remain in you debt.
Thank you sir am grateful.
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