8:56 PM
Before you guyz read the mail I just got, I wanna ask - Should the word, Infidelity be used in boyfriend-girlfriend relationship? I think that word is too heavy for such relationship. If na courtship or marriage now, e for good.
Well, let's see what the guy wanna tell us:
"Hello pls hide my ID, I love my gf sooo much dat she also knows, yday I logged in her fb account and I smelled infidelity, cos I saw a message dat should be sent to just 'boyfriend' nt a friend, we're in different school, its a distant relationship, I've seen some messages but she deletes it instantly on her fb, right now I don't know maybe I should accuse her or something else because m seriously devastated, is it right to accuse her or I should jst play along, thanks pls post asap."
Hmmmmm.....Oro nla. My brother, don't play along oooo. You play along penren, you play your girlfriend away niyen oooo. You don see proof, wetin kan dey delay you? Abi, you are afraid of her ni? Bros, I'm very sure if she were the one who saw those messages in your facebook inbox, she will challenge you immediately.
Ok! You know what? This is what you will do: If you don't wanna accuse her face to face.....do it on one of these chatting sites or apps, BBM or whatsapp. This will enable you reel out your mind with no fear. But, be careful with the words you use, don't be insultive....take it calm with her and tell her what you saw and felt about it.
And if she wants to change it for you by saying you don't trust her or why would you insinuate such (cuz she will)....make her understand that itz all because you are very afraid to lose her and that you don't want to. And then call her immediately after the chat to apologise and re-assure her of your love for her.
GBAM! You don get wetin you wan hear and you don get your babe back be that.
The Charming Humble Nice Guy won't say more than this.
Abi my people, wetin una feel about my solution? You can also help this guy by dropping your advice as comment.
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Monday, April 21, 2014
8:56 PM
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Your ggirlfriend?...distant relationshhip?..is she your wife?...even wives can be unfaithful in distant relationshhip...
ReplyDeleteMy guy look for a girl in your own school and stop tryingg to cage a girl who is in another school..do you think the boys in her school are gays?
I also tink dht d possible nd best solution 4 d guy
ReplyDeleteAssumptions may b deadly. so trash am out bfr concluding or else yu go wound o
ReplyDelete‘Two' wrongs don't make a right, assuming she was wrong at all in the first place. You should only heed Prince n Jasper's advice if you don't love her as you claimed. When you love someone, staying faithful to him/her doesn't require effort.You are happy to do just that. In summary, I suggest you follow CHNG's advice and get back your relationship while you can. Best of luck to you.
ReplyDelete@ CHNG n all concerned. I beg to differ. Infidelity is unfaithfulness whichever way you choose to look at it. Boyfriend-Girlfriend relationships most times eventually go beyond that and lead to marriages. Let's stop dating for fun and having that mindset of ‘a jo n gbadun ara wa ni' (My Yoruba writing skills is a bit rusty these days, pardon me). The point is don't date her if you don't love her. I know you understand me.#Also pardon my advice turned lecture.
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