3 CRAZY THINGS LADIES DO IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP THAT ARE REALLY IRRITATING.

Hen hen! When I wrote 3 CRAZY THINGS GUYS DO IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP THAT ARE REALLY IRRITATING [Click the words in capital letter to read incase you missed it], you ladies thought I wouldn't come for you abi? I saw all your comments, you were all praising me like sey una no get your own too for body.

Well, as that previous write-up was for the Association of Nigerian Boyfriends (ASONB), this one is strictly for the Association of Nigerian Girlfriends (ASONG).

Ladies too get some really crazy things they do in their relationship wey dey very irritating and the most annoying part about this is; the moment you call their attention to these things, they'll flare up and put up a fight. So, to complain go kan be wahala.
I've been able to put together just 3 out of MANY Crazy Things Our Girlfriends do wey dey very annoying:
1. I DON'T WANT HIM TO TAKE MY LOVE FOR GRANTED - Many ladies do this wella. They'll tell their friends; "I love him so much but I don't wanna act like I do". Ask them WHY....this is what you'll get; "He'll take my love for granted". Oh yeah! This is truly true as guys (I mean guys who ain't up to the task, in other words insane guys who started from the bottom and are still at that bottom) always wanna do this out of ignorance. No sane guy would reciprocate love for hatred. The real issue is; why would a girl hide her strong and true feelings after you don gree to be his girlfriend?....this love should be felt. I've once been with a girl who nearly got me crazy just because she never acted like she really loved me, meanwhile she did love me so much. I was the one doing everything. She wouldn't even reply me whenever I told her the most powerful words in the world: "I TRULY LOVE YOU". Sometimes, her reply was "Thank You". I went through hell during the time I was dating her. I ended up quitting things with her when I could no longer take it.
Guys want to be loved. We want to be cared for and at the same time nurtured. You can do this (I don't want him to take my love for granted) for a short period of time (probably during the first stage into your relationship) but once you see that your boyfriend ain't liking your moves, the earlier you start showing him you love and care for him, the better. I'm currently handling a case similar to this. The guy broke up with her simply because he felt she doesn't love him due to the way she treats him....NOW, the lady is everywhere looking for every possible way to get the love of her life back and baba don already tell me sey "I'm DONE with her, there's no going back".

Ladies, you are putting your relationship at risk if you're not making him feel loved.

2. YOU DON'T CALL ME - This one dey always vex me. Ladies always want to be called by their boyfriends, dem no wan dey call. For what na? If you're missing him, what is stopping you from putting a call through to him? Ladies are so arrogant that they don't want to be the first to do something and no be sey dem no love the guy ooo, itz cuz of what I just explained in my number one point, they don't want him to feel like he's very important.
If he has not called in the past few days, pick up your phone and call him. He might be going through some terrible times and the opportunity to call you is not showing up. You calling him will make things go smooth for both of you. Even if you kan complain while calling sey him no call you, that one still make sense.
My CHNGirl does this sometimes, but she don dey change now cuz she understands how hectic my work is. She'll say: "I just want to check if you're still alive since you've forgotten me".....lolz.....Sweetest Girlfriend Ever Liveth.
Because he didn't PING you, you too will not PING him....Madam, you're putting fire into your relationship. Those who sabi me on BBM know me to be a Broadcast Message (BC) guy....and sometimes, this keeps busy to the extent of not chatting with my CHNGirl, but as a very understanding lady (I made her understand what's really going on), she'll send a PING!!!, if I don't reply, then she knows I'm busy. After few minutes, she'll send another PING!!!, if I no reply the second one, she'll surely call. And I don't do this every time though.

Pride builds wall between you and your partner but Humility builds a bridge that connects you.

3. MY FRIENDS KNOW IT ALL - When I talked about guys gisting their friends about their sex escapades with their girlfriends, it might shock you to know that ladies also do the same. Some girlfriends are PUBLIC TOILET. They give their friends the details of what's going on in their relationship. When she and her boyfriend dey do love nwantintin, her bestie (as they call it) must get the gist....if dem make sweet love, her bestie must be fed with the details of how she was fucked good....if her boyfriend slap her, na untop her bestie shoulder she dey go cry. PURE NONSENSE!!!
After you don feed your 'bestie' with all the good things your boyfriend dey do you, if your bestie begin dey eye your boyfriend, you go begin dey cry BETRAYAL everywhere.....tell me, who no want better thing?
There should be limit to what your friends (in general) know about your relationship. They shouldn't even be able to give an account of how your relationship is going when asked. In this country, no trust any bestie ooo.

These 3 points explained above should be taken seriously, as simple as they sound, the result is not always simple. Don't be too lazy to make your relationship work out well. The lady is the engine of every relationship, the guy is just the body part, if the engine ain't working well....the relationship won't MOVE, thereby making the body part very useless.

Let your boyfriend be proud to have you....it's the best feeling in the world.

HAVE A FRUITFUL & STRESS-FREE RELATIONSHIP!!!


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