HOW DO YOU MANAGE A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? - THE CHNG ASKS.

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My people, I don tire. In fact, e don dey worry me, my body, my heart and my soul. Long Distance Relationship no easy oooo. Chai!!! Especially if you really in love with the Lady. Is anyone currently in a Long Distance Relationship? Abeg, how una dey take do am?

Like seriously, I've read many things about Long Distance Relationship and as a matter of fact; I'm in such relationship and I must confess; it's very difficult to manage. Though, there is strong communication and trust but that ain't as sweet as seeing each other whenever you want to. I love spending quality time with my babe but na ontop phone and social media I dey spend the quality time. They said I should be patient, I don over patient sef....they also said I should be understanding, na me dey understanding pass for this world....but still, the distance between me and my babe seems to be eating me up.

I don already dey sound very emotional abi? Leave me make I talk my mind.

That guy called 'distance' can be sooo crazy....e jes hijacked my babe from me and made me sooo lonely. Sometimes I go just dey, be needing my babe by my side and she is just no where to be found, and then the serious part is that one won't want to cheat on her. So, person gatz wait till the next time we meet before anything happen. Chai!!! Long Distance Relationship no different from Blind Dating, I no go lie you.

I'm no longer finding it funny. It gets me mad and sometimes make me lose interest in my lady. Buh no matter how hard I try to get close to someone else who is near, it wouldn't just work. If not for distance, I'd be seeing my babe almost everyday. Some said distance makes the love stronger cuz if we were to be close, we might have gotten tired of each other, is that one true? I don't think so ooo.

You know I've actually met some crazy guys who really wants their NUMBER ONE babe to be far away from them (Every guy has a NUMBER ONE babe aside his side chics...ask your guy if you're his NUMBER ONE babe....hehe). But my own case is different.

The most annoying part of it is what friends say about the relationship. Some comments can make someone rethink and just break up. You'll hear things like:
"You don't know anything. You are claiming your babe is faithful to you, babe wey another guy don dey f*ck for where she dey"
OR
"You see her only once in a year and you think she's really in love with you? My guy, sharp up....you don dey jonze since."
It really takes a very strong heart to ignore these comments.

If you kan get friends like mine who loves clubbing with their babes, haaaaa....then, you are done for cuz na only you go dey without babe for club, unless if you go carry olosho. I've experienced this many times, I always end up becoming the photographer, snapping my friends and their babes.

I think I need to be encouraged to keep being in this Long Distance Relationship of a thing cuz e be like sey na FACEBOOK LOVE me dey do ooo. What and what can be done to keep a Long Distance Relationship running? How do you maintain it? Y'all know how I've helped some of you in your relationships, it's my turn to be helped now. Make una save me from this everyday unbearable missing of my babe.

Your opinions won't only help me but help so many others who are in my shoes too cuz we wey dey this shii plenty gan. Thanks in advance.

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