Everyone has them. And they are everywhere. They are after your success. They want to make sure you don't make it in life. Some of us fall for their bait. Some of us are smart (but not that smart) to escape their wicked acts (You just can't escape all of them nani). Most of us actually see everyone around as 'Enemies' (like Nigerians will always call them), the true fact is you'll easily know your enemy. But, you also have to be very careful not to mistake a friend for an enemy cuz if you do so, it will seriously affect your lifestyle.
As for me, I know lil of my haters (enemies) and I always tell it to their face that there's nothing they can do to disturb the purpose of God from fulfilling in my life. They can only shine for a period of time, but God will surely fight for me and make me an OVERCOMER.
I have some special ways which you can adopt to make your haters repent. Enjoy:
1. DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM THEM BUT NOT COMPLETELY - I do this a lot. Once I see that you are not in line with my vision, you are always against and looking for faults in everything I do, not willing to correct me but use it against me, I draw myself away from you immediately. I won't stop being your friend but some of the personal things I share with you will be put to a halt. I'll strongly warn you never to say anything about what I do, and even block you from every avenue where you are likely to see my works. When all these are set in place, the hater will re-think his endeavors.
2. NEVER RECIPROCATE EVIL FOR EVIL TO THEM - Simply put; 'Do good to them even when they never stop doing bad to you.' Yeah! Thatz the logic and thatz exactly what God wants us to do to our enemies. The moment you reciprocate evil for evil, then you are also an enemy. Be GOOD and always portray a NICE image. Truth be told, it's always not easy to do this. When your hater keep seeing the good you are showing to him despite his wickedness, nobody go tell am to stop wasting his/her time.
3. PRAY FOR THEM - This is the biggest strategy one can employ for an enemy, Always Pray For Your Enemies. Most people have misinterpreted this commandment from God, the prayer God talked about is not what Nigerians are exercising. It's not the kinda prayer Mountain of Fire and all these Prayer Warrior Churches does. Spiritual enemies can be fought that way but not the physical haters we see around us. I get baffled when I hear people in church give God a list of their enemies' names in their street, telling God how to deal with them mercilessly....they don't know that someone in another church has given God their names too as enemies... lolz. By now, you should understand the kinda prayers one should pray for his/her enemies.
And these are some helpful tips I got from wikihow.com:
* Never be scared of them.
* They are only enemies and only do that to gain attention.
* Never act like those losers.
* When you talk to them, think before you talk.
* Don't back talk to them.
* Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
Can I ask a question please?
"Do you know your enemy or Is it possible to know one's enemy."
If your answer is YES! Then, my 3 ways of life with an enemy will help you. Treat your enemies the right way.
BE FREE and LIVE A HEALTHY LIFE.
The Charming Humble Nice Guy won't say more than this.
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such a nice piece
ReplyDeleteWow,I've learnt a lot....
ReplyDeleteNa u sure pass. Thank you for this. Itz so nice.
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